What are the alternatives to having a steady relationship with another man?
Well of course i want to have the dream jewish family, kids, a home, yom tov with the family etc, but one thing i will never do is marry someone i am not attracted to, without them knowing, one its probably against halacha, and two i would be living a lie, i am not judging anyone that has, it is not in my place to do so, but i know that i could never do that.
So whats the alternatives? well either you find a straight frum woman who doesn't mind someone who cant provide sexual intimacy, or you make an arrangement with a gay frum girl, who is technically in the same boat as you, and marry out of convenience, i wonder if this has been done before, and if it can work out...
I think its appropriate in your position to get in a relationship with a dude...
ReplyDeleteIf you want kids- try to picture the loving devoted couples, who are infertile. What do they do? Such people find ways all the time. Gays too.
Then find a nice group of Jews to daven with. Even frummy people are becoming a bit more tolerant every year.
Presto. And Im with you 100% and I agree with the part about not marrying one of my girlfriends without her knowing
Step..step..step...